Welcome to Today's Date Online Safety Center

Let's get serious for a moment and check in on Safety.

Background Checks

Today's Date does not conduct criminal background checks on our members. While we strive to verify member authenticity, we cannot guarantee that every individual is trustworthy. Therefore, we encourage you to read the information in our Safety Information Center to take steps to protect yourself. You can also assist other members by reporting any harmful or unwanted behavior to our Safety Center, helping us enforce our Code of Conduct. If you wish to conduct a background check on a potential match, consider using these resources:

    1. BeenVerified
      • Website: BeenVerified
      • Overview: BeenVerified offers comprehensive background checks, including criminal records, contact information, and social media profiles. It is user-friendly and provides detailed reports to help you make informed decisions.

    1. Intelius
      • Website: Intelius
      • Overview: Intelius provides thorough background checks with access to public records, criminal histories, and personal information. It also offers reverse phone lookup and people search features, making it a versatile tool for verifying potential matches.

    1. TruthFinder
      • Website: TruthFinder
      • Overview: TruthFinder delivers detailed background reports, including criminal records, social media activity, and address histories. It is known for its accuracy and ease of use, helping you ensure the authenticity of individuals you interact with online.

Reporting Harmful or Unwanted Behavior

We provide multiple mechanisms for reporting harmful or unwanted behavior:

    1. Emergency Situations: Dial 911.
    2. Contacting Our Safety Center: Reach out for non-emergency situations.
    3. Email: Send details to safety@todaysdate.life.

When we receive reports of harmful behavior, we investigate to determine if there has been a violation of our standards. Possible actions include:

    1. Reminding the offender of our conduct standards.
    2. Notating the violation in their account files.
    3. Canceling memberships for serious violations.
    4. Reporting to legal authorities if physical harm or serious threats are involved.
    5. Complying with mandatory reporting laws.

Safety Advice for Online Communication and In-Person Meetings

Here are some safety tips from the United States Secret Service to help you stay safe online and avoid romance scams:

  • Online Safety:
      1. Be cautious about what you post online.
      2. Use reputable websites but remain vigilant for scammers.
      3. Research the person’s photo and profile, ask questions, and be wary of requests for inappropriate photos or financial information.
      4. Do not send money to people you have never met in person.
      5. Be suspicious of individuals who fail to show up for meetings with repeated excuses.

  • In-Person Meetings:
      1. Meet in public places.
      2. Inform a friend or family member of your plans.
      3. Trust your instincts and leave if you feel uncomfortable.

Additional Resources for Domestic Violence and Sexual Harassment

In an emergency, dial 911. Here are some resources for additional support:

Educational Information Regarding Romance Scams

The FTC offers valuable information on recognizing and avoiding romance scams:

Today's Date Policies on Harassment Complaints

Our Statement of Conduct outlines the expected behavior of our members. When harassment complaints are made, we:

  • Investigate and determine if there has been a violation.
  • Take appropriate action, from warnings to membership termination.
  • Cooperate with legal authorities as necessary.
  • Provide support to members pursuing legal action, except where Today’s Date is directly involved.

By following these guidelines and utilizing the provided resources, we aim to create a safe and respectful community for all members. Your safety and well-being are our top priorities.